Men were raised to express themselves and connect with those around them through ACTION.
Unfortunately, too many women seem to forget this and want to TALK TALK TALK their way into a man's heart.
The strange reality is that as you're getting to know a man... MORE TALK will often get you LESS RESPONSE from a man on an emotional level.
The funny part is, the more you can tease a man and have him laughing and wanting you to be serious for a minute... the more he's going to be wanting to get close to you and know you better.
REAL MEN want a woman who MOTIVATES them because she is thinking and doing great things, and her energy and attitude is contagious.
REAL MEN want a woman who has her own PURPOSE that inspires her and gives her fulfillment and a reason for living and breathing OTHER THAN just being in a relationship.
A) Make you happy
B) NOT upset you accidentally to the point where you lose your cool emotionally and he feels like you "turn on him"
A woman who has the maturity to not BLAME or CRITICIZE a man for what she's feeling, but to share her feelings in an honest and authentic way that helps a man BETTER UNDERSTAND HER... will have a man who is more open than she could imagine any man being with her.
4. A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Makes Him Feel Intense ATTRACTION
Men know, as well as women do, that it's EASY to find someone who makes you WILD with desire at first...
And hard to find someone who makes you feel this way loooooooong into your relationship.
Here's something you might not know about men.
Men aren't as scared of COMMITMENT and RELATIONSHIPS as they are scared of being in a relationship with a woman where there is no PASSION and ATTRACTION.
And the universal way that men relax, have fun and BOND is through playful TEASING.
Flirting almost always involves some form of humor and sarcasm- as in instead of answering a man directly when he asks you what you do for a living... you look at him and think of the most ridiculous thing you could imagine getting him to believe and say that instead
But if you've tuned out from your own sensuality and you're stressed and anxious because you feel like you have to do so much for yourself... then you often aren't in that place where a man will feel INSPIRED by you and DRAWN TO YOU on a physical and emotional level.
There's a place that's IN BETWEEN too "needy" and too INDEPENDENT that men find irresistible in a woman.
Funny thing, this place also happens to be the state of mind where you as a woman are at your happiest and most fulfilled inside.
Do you find yourself either:
1) Acting a little too "needy" to where you can tell it rubs a man the wrong way?
2) Acting a bit too "fiercely independent" to where you don't even want to let a man in or RECEIVE what he wants to give you?
If so, then it's going to be tough for a man to both feel deeply CONNECTED to you, and for him to feel intensely ATTRACTED to you.
3. A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is "Emotionally Mature"
A single, successful, attractive man who has lots of OPTIONS has seen a lot of different things from women in his life.
If a man feels attracted to a woman, enjoys being with her, and they're spending a lot of amazing time together... eventually there's going to be a situation that comes up where you and a man will see something differently and misunderstand each other.
There might also be a time where a man does something that hurts your feelings, or shows that he isn't thinking about you and your feelings.
How will you respond to this?
And how will you share your feelings?
Will you share with him in a way that will inspire and encourage him to open up to the fact that he might have done something wrong?
Or will you share in a way that he'll receive as BLAME or CRITICISM? (Both of which will encourage a man to either feel ANGRY or WITHDRAW.)
The difference in these 2 choices of how you as a woman respond has everything to do with how YOU deal with and handle the EMOTIONS you have inside yourself.