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2011/06/21

What 's kind of woman that man really wants?


Havent married yet doesnt mean I dont have any experience with men :-)
So it doesnt hurt for you, women, to read this tips, what kind of woman that man rally wants :
1. A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Playful
Men love to be active and to play.When a Real Man sees you doing your own thing and focusing on your own life, he will WANT YOU EVEN MORE and do things to get your attention and create intimate situations between you.

Men were raised to express themselves and connect with those around them through ACTION.

Unfortunately, too many women seem to forget this and want to TALK TALK TALK their way into a man's heart.

The strange reality is that as you're getting to know a man... MORE TALK will often get you LESS RESPONSE from a man on an emotional level.
And for men, the easiest and most straightforward way for a man to engage in his emotions with you is by DOING THINGS with him that DON'T require talking, but allow you to be PLAYFUL with him.
   a. Sports

   b. Teasing

The funny part is, the more you can tease a man and have him laughing and wanting you to be serious for a minute... the more he's going to be wanting to get close to you and know you better.
2. A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Independent
REAL MEN want a woman who INSPIRES them because she has great things going on her own life.
REAL MEN want a woman who MOTIVATES them because she is thinking and doing great things, and her energy and attitude is contagious.


REAL MEN want a woman who has her own PURPOSE that inspires her and gives her fulfillment and a reason for living and breathing OTHER THAN just being in a relationship.
Do you have the patience and maturity to take the time to get in touch with your own feelings as you're feeling them, and communicate from a place of positive intention?
Whether or not you recognize it right now, the thing Real Men want most from the woman they're with is to see her simply happy and smiling because of who he is and the good things he does.
If you want a man to know that your relationship is something he wants to last and keep going, then he should feel like it's EASY to know how to:

A) Make you happy


And...


B) NOT upset you accidentally to the point where you lose your cool emotionally and he feels like you "turn on him"


A woman who has the maturity to not BLAME or CRITICIZE a man for what she's feeling, but to share her feelings in an honest and authentic way that helps a man BETTER UNDERSTAND HER... will have a man who is more open than she could imagine any man being with her.

4.  A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Makes Him Feel Intense ATTRACTION



Men know, as well as women do, that it's EASY to find someone who makes you WILD with desire at first...


And hard to find someone who makes you feel this way loooooooong into your relationship.


Here's something you might not know about men.


Men aren't as scared of COMMITMENT and RELATIONSHIPS as they are scared of being in a relationship with a woman where there is no PASSION and ATTRACTION.


There's nothing more appealing to a man than a great woman who knows how to relax and have fun.
There's nothing more appealing to a man than a great woman who knows how to relax and have fun.

And the universal way that men relax, have fun and BOND is through playful TEASING.


Flirting almost always involves some form of humor and sarcasm- as in instead of answering a man directly when he asks you what you do for a living... you look at him and think of the most ridiculous thing you could imagine getting him to believe and say that instead

 



But if you've tuned out from your own sensuality and you're stressed and anxious because you feel like you have to do so much for yourself... then you often aren't in that place where a man will feel INSPIRED by you and DRAWN TO YOU on a physical and emotional level.


There's a place that's IN BETWEEN too "needy" and too INDEPENDENT that men find irresistible in a woman.


Funny thing, this place also happens to be the state of mind where you as a woman are at your happiest and most fulfilled inside.

Do you find yourself either:


      1) Acting a little too "needy" to where you can tell it rubs a man the wrong way?


Or...

    2) Acting a bit too "fiercely independent" to where you don't even want to let a man in or RECEIVE what he wants to give you?


If so, then it's going to be tough for a man to both feel deeply CONNECTED to you, and for him to feel intensely ATTRACTED to you.


3. A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is "Emotionally Mature"



A single, successful, attractive man who has lots of OPTIONS has seen a lot of different things from women in his life.


If a man feels attracted to a woman, enjoys being with her, and they're spending a lot of amazing time together... eventually there's going to be a situation that comes up where you and a man will see something differently and misunderstand each other.


There might also be a time where a man does something that hurts your feelings, or shows that he isn't thinking about you and your feelings.

How will you respond to this?

And how will you share your feelings?

Will you share with him in a way that will inspire and encourage him to open up to the fact that he might have done something wrong?


Or will you share in a way that he'll receive as BLAME or CRITICISM? (Both of which will encourage a man to either feel ANGRY or WITHDRAW.)


The difference in these 2 choices of how you as a woman respond has everything to do with how YOU deal with and handle the EMOTIONS you have inside yourself.

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